Unlike my imaginary boyfriend who saves me from wierdos, my boo was real. He still is real, he’s just not my boo anymore. One of my very best friends became more than that and we were an item for a year. We’re still friends, just don’t tell my imaginary boyfriend…he’s a jealous one.
Do you know that person who has perfect timing and perfect motives? That’s him. He cared about me more than anything and his motives with me were totally pure. I’m more than lucky that he came into my life at the time he did. We learn so much from every relationship in our lives, no matter how long or short, romantic or not. This one, however, was a little more impactful than others. I learned a lot about me and he gave me so much confidence in myself.
If I wanted to go somewhere, we went there. If I thought a bad thought about myself, I was totally wrong, and he would list the reasons why. We talked on the phone for hours and hours every single night. The best thing about us was that we were friends first, as I think it should always be. We were friends for four years before we even thought about each other that way. This was the first real love that I experienced and it shapes the way I feel love should be experienced. I seriously believe that a good romantic relationship should just be friends with benefits. I always thought of us that way.
This will be probably one of the only times I’ll talk about my feelings on romantic love. I think it’s beautiful and I love for anyone to get a chance to experience it. However, I strongly feel that right now the human race is too stingy with the “L” word. I like to talk more about the love of yourself, your life, friends and family. Love shouldn’t be reserved for someone you have a romantic agenda with…it should be for everyone you know. If we all just gave a little more love to each other we might have a shot at something close to world peace…As Ghandi said: Be the change you want to see in the world. I fully intend to be. 😉